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Hello to all, I greet you all in the mighty and saving name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I know I have been away for a while, but I am back. It has been an exhausting semester, but by the grace of God I got through it all. All glory and honor goes to Him.         You may ask, “Why is she dealing with modesty again?” The only answer that I have to give is that the Holy Spirit has been constantly pressing it on my heart. I wanted to write about something else, but I couldn’t. Every time that I have sat to my laptop to start the topic that I have wanted to, nothing has came. When the Lord brought this into my spirit, a piece of fear creped in me, fear of speaking out, fear of saying what He wants me to say, but the Holy Spirit reminded my of 2 Timothy 1:7 (KJV) which says, “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” I am not going to fear, but I am going to say...

Hey ladies I know I have been away for a while, but I am going to pick up right where I left off. Don't you think the modestly dressed women above are sexy? I think so, and not much skin was revealed to accomplish it. Women tend to say they dress a certain way to feel sexy, but you don't have to show the world your body and dress scantily to do so. In my last post a few months back I left you with this question, do you wear a bikini to the beach and if so why? Let me first answer the question, I do not wear a bikini to the beach because I feel that its just underwear made with a different material. I wear a one piece or tankini with shorts. Usually when I ask this question to women they usually say yeah why not, then I precede with the question, would you wear your underwear to the beach? They then answer no and I ask isn’t it the same thing just made with a different material? In addition, I also ask, what’s so different between the two? No one could ever seem t...

Greetings to all! I know I have been away for a while, started school again and I have been trying to get back into the swing of things and balance it all, but I am back. Ready to tackle this controversial topic of physical modesty. I want to address the reasons why I dress modestly and what I find to be modest and immodest. This is based on personal opinion and some may not agree, but I just want to get some people thinking……… In the last post I left the question, “ As a woman of God, do you dress modestly?” First and foremost I want to answer this question myself.  I think that as a woman of God I dress quite modestly, my father and brother will say that sometimes my pants are a bit too tight, but that’s the only complaint I have gotten from men that care about my way of dress. I never have my breast, back, or stomach out for the world to see, or wear shorts that are so short you can see all that God has blessed me with. I dress modestly and try to be a good representatio...

As I sit and look at the picture above and meditate on what God has placed on my heart. It makes me wonder what Christianity has come to. Everyone is a Christian now days. Yet when you look at their actions and the life that they are living, in no way does it reflect Christ. It seems that in today’s society all you have to do is say that you are a Christian and you are one, but you can go on living life the same way as the sinner in the world. You can get drunk, party, sleep around and do pretty much anything but you are a Christian. However, Matthew 7:20 says, “ Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.”  So when someone proclaims Christianity I always look at their actions, the way they carry themselves, how they treat people etc. to see if they are truly a follower of Christ. In the world today how Christians are living there seems to be no standard of holiness.  When you talk to people they tend to say you are judging them. Someone once told me tha...

  1)     Standards can vary for different occasions. (e.g., a formal spaghetti strap dress at a wedding is more modest than a spaghetti strap top at the movie theater). Age Comments 15 Occasion is the wrong word, setting is a better word. In the living room of your own house, without any guests, sisters could probably wear almost any thing without being immodest, although their actions will still have to be modest. Outside of the home I don't think there should be a difference of standards. 18 I have questions about this. I personally have been bothered by some of the wedding dresses I've seen recently. I think I will encourage my future fiancée to choose a dress that is beyond reproach, with no possibility of causing someone to stumble. ...