Single, Saved & Waiting....................

Day #22 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband  will practice forgiveness in our relationship and with others. I pray that he will recognize any roots of bitterness, and yield any resentment and unforgiving attitudes to You. In Jesus' name I pray Amen! (Eph. 4:32; Heb. 12:15)

Day #16 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband   will choose healthy, God-honoring activities. I pray that he will not live in bondage to any questionable habits or hobbies, but that he will experience freedom in holiness as he yields to the Spirit’s control. In Jesus' name I pray amen! (1 Cor. 6:12, 10:31; 2 Tim. 2:4)

                      Well ladies I don't know about you, but there seems to be some sort of fever going around. Everyone around me seems to be getting engaged and if not engaged married. Here I sit, in my mid twenties, single, a virgin, and it seems like no prospects in sight. Yet every time I log onto Facebook there is some newly engaged couple or someone got married once again or there are pictures of happy couples so in love. Every time I turn on the television its another romantic movie, or television show on…..             The enemy tries each time to make me feel lonely, that I am getting old, and that I will end up alone. At this point I'm asking God why hasn't my time come to love? Why hasn't my time come to have someone to call my own. Lord I've stayed true to my vow to save myself for my husband, and I have been by the grace of God been living my life for You, growing, and walki...

Day #15  Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband  will choose his friends wisely. I pray that God will bring him men who will encourage his accountability before God, and will not lead him into sin. In Jesus' name I pray Amen! (Prov. 13:20; Prov. 27:17)

Day #14 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband   will speak words that build me and our family, and reflect a heart of love. I pray that he will not use filthy language. (Prov. 18:21; Eph. 4:29)

Day #12 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband  will yield his sexual drive to the Lord and practice self control. I pray that our sexual intimacy together will be fresh, positive, and a reflection of selfless love. In  Jesus' name I pray Amen! (Prov. 5:15, 18; 1 Cor. 7:3; Song of Solomon 7:10)

Day #11 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband  will have a humble, teachable spirit and a servant’s heart before the Lord. I pray that he will listen to God and desire to do His will. In Jesus' name I pray Amen! (Prov. 15:33; Eph. 6:6)

Day #10 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband  will cultivate strong integrity, and not compromise his convictions. I pray that his testimony will be genuine, that he will be honest in his business dealings, and will never do anything that he needs to hide from others. In Jesus' name I pray Amen! (Prov. 20:7; 1 Tim. 1:5, 3:7; Eph. 6:10-12)

  Day #5 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband will be faithful to his wedding vows. I pray that he will have a desire to cultivate our relationship as a sign of his loyalty and commitment to me, and as a picture of Your love for the Church. In Jesus' name, amen! (Prov. 20:6; Gen. 2:24)

Day #4 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband will grow in leadership skills in our relationship—protecting and providing for me. I pray that he will lead me wisely and love me sacrificially like You loved the church, so that You will be glorified in our marriage. In Jesus's name, amen! (Eph. 5:25-29; Col. 3:19) 

Day #3 Dear heavenly Father, I pray that my future husband will be humble and quick to agree with You about his sin. I pray that his heart will be tender toward Your voice. In Jesus' name I pray amen!  (Ps. 51:2-4; Micah 6:8)

I just want to take the time out to wish each and every one of the followers of my blog a Happy New Year! This year I can feel God is going to do great and marvellous things in the lives of single women hungry and on fire for Him. My prayer for you this year is that you would get closer to Him and let go of all the baggage that might be holding you back to go higher in the Lord. Let's thank God for the lessons that we have all learned in 2013 and look toward our future in which He holds.  Let's continue to trust in the plan He has for our lives.  For Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV) says ,  " For I know the plans  I have for you,” declares the  Lord , “plans to prosper  you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Wishing you all the best God has for you in this brand new year! Love, Raven

Greetings to all! I know I have been away for a while, started school again and I have been trying to get back into the swing of things and balance it all, but I am back. Ready to tackle this controversial topic of physical modesty. I want to address the reasons why I dress modestly and what I find to be modest and immodest. This is based on personal opinion and some may not agree, but I just want to get some people thinking……… In the last post I left the question, “ As a woman of God, do you dress modestly?” First and foremost I want to answer this question myself.  I think that as a woman of God I dress quite modestly, my father and brother will say that sometimes my pants are a bit too tight, but that’s the only complaint I have gotten from men that care about my way of dress. I never have my breast, back, or stomach out for the world to see, or wear shorts that are so short you can see all that God has blessed me with. I dress modestly and try to be a good representatio...

1)       Girls can dress attractively without being immodest. Age Comments 13 Most namebrand clothing stores make attractive clothing that still covers you. You don't have to show everyone your body for them to think you are attrctive. Besides, the first thing Christian guys notice when looking at girls are their face. 15 YES! My friend looked absolutely beautiful in a modest dress. It was not low cut and it went a little under her knees, and she still looked gorgeous. 16 Amen! Here's the key: When you dress immodestly you are saying "look at my beautiful body" to every one. However when you dress modestly you are saying "I am obeying the LORD and saving my most raw beauty (if you will) for the place God has for it...